5 MO

Assalamualaikum kwn2 semua. I've been missing this blogging thing, currently busy dgn mcari kerja, interview dan daily routine smpikan xda masa nk update any news. Now Nabilah hampir mcecah 5MO, alhamdulillah masih fully BF. Tp....even sudah 5bulan, perut itu xmau kempis~~ uuuu sgtla runsing dan mganggu jiwa raga hokey!!!

Progress baby da pandai meniarap, and her saliva running like crazy...adoiii penat btul nk lap. Pastu, da start nk main2 and kluar jalan ***xnk duduk dlm bilik, cepat bosan***. Dia da recognize familiar face to her and even kalo talking to her dia mcm fhm ape yg dikatakan. Alhamdulillah. Mmg seronok, tiap kali nk hantar gi umah bbsitter mesti peluk cium dlu dlm kete ***lama2*** pesan kt dia to be a goodgirl before keluar kete. ***sobsob*** Grabbing and touching things to mmg dia suka especially colourful things... kalo suka sgt tu smpi mjerit2 adoiii excited btul!

The thing with me is im feeling annoyed with the flabby tummy and the stretchmarks... Really want the old me..uhuk2 i mean physically. Tp itula pengorbanan seorg ibu kn? We got a baby along with the extras whatever it's call. I've tried few of slimming wear but ada yg xberapa sesuai and xselesa... ***sigh*** I've been thinking of trying PB, after reading a few review from frens and blogger. The price what is concerning me...heheh of coz la kn, gaji ciput tp nak cantik....hahahhaah cmne tu???!!!!! 

Anyway, after reading wanie nasir testmonial, terseru kejap pasal menda ni after for so long tertangguh....hurm. Nnt i inform whether or not i afford@get to hv this PB. 

Actually Im in the situation of 50-50 of my current job. 1stly coz it's a contract position, and the company itself in a transforming phase internally, having the company without any project for a year its my concern and also as my contract will be ended on early of february 2012. Should I or should i not searching for new job is really stressful and tiring, coz its already end of the year,,usually company tgh freeze their recruitment team for headcount. Xbyk sgt job yg ada, position yg sesuai and plus2 i've to consider the place near my hse@bbsitter hse@tmpt xjam. Huhuhuuh mmg xbyk. 

i've got a few interviews but all failed. It's not my fate. I got this last chance ***what i could say*** the position is really suited me well, but whether or not it'll be mine...nextweek i'll update insyaAllah. A goodnews, yesterday i've been assigned to a special project, to transform the company... the percentage that my contract will be extend is high.... Owhh..Allah, please show and guide me. Im hopeless without your guide.Ya Allah the most merciful i am your hopeless servant...

My BF Story

Tbaca Piya punya blog pasal bf, aku pon nk story bout mine. Alhamdulillah, Nabilah dah mcecah ke 3bulan, begitulah jugak tempohnya aku BF nabilah. Syukur aku dapat BF exclusive, without any FM involvve. Lucky me...and pity them to those yg xberapa bernasib baik. Before bersalin aku pikir nk BF ni cm senang, but thru reading ade gak org yg ade problem... i wonder why kn... but actually xsemudah itu. You have to fully prepared physically, mentally, emotionally. Kiranya kne berjiwa KENTAL la kan sebab banyak dugaan yang akan mendatang, kita xketahui. Mayb not now but later...who knows.

As I said just now, awlnya aku mmg xde problem utk BF nabilah, but now...aku sudah mula kusut bila nabilah xnak menyusu. Direct BF mmg dia boleh terima but not by bottle. Mayb sebab da sedap menyusu badan sminggu lebih time cuti raya hari tu. Kesian la kt pengasuh dia, nk menghadap si kecik ni yg kalo mnangis hhuhuh sgt nyaring skali suaranya. Aku dapat bayangkan... Adusss sedey tu aku pikir2 balik nabilah xmyusu. Bayangkanla...aku anta dia pukul 10, amek dalam kol 6++ yang diminum cuma 1botol,2oz susu... biasanya bulan puasa, kalo aku anta kol 10 sampai kol 5cmtu abesla 3botol. ***jgn tnya apsal g keje kol 10 ahahha***

Seriously sikit dia minum. Aku sebagai ibu ni, xda la rasa tguris hati ke hape, cuma risaula kan dia xmau minum susu botol. Tu pon bila dia dh betul2 lapar br minum. Tiap kali amek dia, dia dah knal kan ibu dia...mula la buat muka sedey...nangis. Sedey kne tinggal, rindu kat ibu. Aku cm nk mnetes air mata ***uuhuhu syahdu weh, touching tu*** Tp kne kental la kn, xkan nk mnangis kt umah pengasuh tu pulak kan?! Sengal jek~ Sian kt nabilah, dia xmau accept botol. Aku try baca kt forum susu ibu, dia suggest bg gak, but try bberapa approach la.

1) Guna botol tapi disusukan oleh orang selain ibu. Sebabnya baby dah set yang bila dia dgn ibu, dia akan direct BF + texture nipple tu dia dh tau.

2) Change bottle nipple kepada nipple latex leper. Dikatakan ia seakan2 nipple semulajadi. Havent try yet...

3) Cup feeding but ada a few kata baby xkenyang. I dont know...x try lg.

Ada pulak org yg suggest suruh bg FM, WT* hahha xmcarut ok... bukan aku mrendah2kan FM ni tapi rasanya belum terdesak lg kot and problem tu sebenarnya with bottle nipple and xde kaitan dgn susu pon. Sebab Nabilah menyusu spt biasa bila direct BF, and gudnews is lebih kerap dari selalu...mayb terlalu lapar. Boleh kata about an hour and so...dia akan menyusu. ***Ibu's Gudgirl mmg bijak*** Hurm masalah tetap masalah, pening aku xsenang duduk kt ofis tpikir si kecik menyusu tak. Anyway, i'll try 2nd method dlu, let's see how it goes. Hopefully and I pray that nabilah bole accept la kan.. Amin!!!

Hati tak senang adeihhhh

Kuruskan badan after bersalin?!

Kira2 sudah 2bulan lebih aku bersalin, badan 'opkos' da turun, malah turun beberapa kilo lg dari berat asal. Almaklumlah, cukup je pantang few weeks after that masukla bulan Ramadhan ni. Tu yg I lg 'selim melim' u! ***Over*** TAPI, sedar atau xsedar sebenarnya walaupon berat da turun, perut yg flabby itu masih menghantui. And paling menjadi musuh aku ade lah selulitzzz dan kawan2nya. ***I HATE U ALL!!!***

Seriously, apela aku nk buat eh. Adei kusut tu tgk hari2 depan cermin. Target aku nk berat bawah 50kg, InsyaAllah akan tercapai@ dah tercapai, latest timbang 50kg few weeks before. masa tu bawak Nabilah gi checkup, dimana babyku sudah pon mencapai 4.8kg...naik 1kg lg!

Newborn : 2.86kg

1MO       : 3.8kg

2MO       : 4.8kg

Memang padat la badan Nabilah skang, terasa btul bila dukung dia. Lenguh2 tgn...xpe asalkan Nabilah sihat! ***Ibu cayang baby small Ibu Muahhhhxxxx*** Er...ni cite pasal Nabilah ke pasal aku sebenarnya. Adeih... heheh Harap2la dapat berat under 50kg, senang sket nk pakai baju2 lama. Tp kan, ade certain part of my body yg mbesar.uhuk2 wpon berat aku da turun. Tu yg merunsingkan, nape tjadi begitu??? Tensen gak aku! Aku mmg 'Pelanggar Pantang' yg hebat sebab part bengkung2 tu mmg hampeh aku nk ikot. Bole kira bape kali aku pakai bengkung tu. Mak aku mmg bising la kn tp dah aku xselesa nk buat cmne. ***Ngade lebey*** Skang br menyesal kn?! Hamek ko! Adeih...so skang Encik Nizam pon **mayb** dok runsing tgk aku dan teman baik aku yg flabby tu, so die tiap ari ingtkan suh pakai bengkung. Aku ni dok bg alasan *spt biasa* yg aku xde masa nk pakai, susah nk pakai dan macam2 lg. Huhuuhuuh Pastu ade pulak Encik Nizam 'ter'mention pasal Premium Beautiful ni. ***Jeng3x***

Pergh mahal jugak kan mende alah tu, bole ke guna time menyusukan baby, kalo nk gi toilet cmne...Haa byk la mende yg bermain kt fikiran aku. Sbenarnye ade jek member aku yg jd agen PB ni, even ada yg pangkat tinggi tu is my classmate ms primary school. Aku ade gak blogwalking kt blog@ FB diorg ni. Mmg amazing la testimonial diorg, just tgk pic diorg u'll be like 'I WANT PB NOW'!!! Begitu gak aku, cuma hegenya tu....adeih, perlukah aku tong2 duit smata2 untuk PB ni? Kusut weh, tapi mau santek cm KAMU,KAMU dan KAMU jugak! Yg ni sorg member blaja yg da jd agen PB. Badan dia mmg genit jek masa blaja dlu, and gained a lot of weight masa pregnant. Tgk pic dia after bsalin tu not much different, but after wearing PB perghh meleleh air liur aku weh, mantop tip top bdn dia. Aku pon nak.

Baca punya baca blog dia, dia ade mention something yg buat aku 'toing2' tepantul2 kt pale aku adeih. 'tiru macam saya... mmg trus aku terpikir dan terpikir dan tergoogle dan macam2 lagi. Aku ni mmg berat sket nk tnye org walaupon ade beribu billion soklan dalam pale aku. Org kata, malu bertanya sesat jalan... tp siyes aku segan sbb xdela close dgn dia time blaja dlu...tp kami fren jek kt FB and comment2 at each other wall. Sengal x aku neh???!!! Tapi, aku nak tau gak produk ni in detail... maklumla kuasa nk Santek tu kuat sgt. Plus, aku nmpk something about 'reduce celullite & stretchmarks' and PB is wearable anywhere. Hurm...

Betul gak kata encik Nizam, skang bole la aku xpakai bengkung, raya nnt macamana? Mkn macam2 smpi langgar pantang...flabby tummy pon bertambah dan berleluasa. Adeih.... Tulung2!!!

Ulasan Barangan Keperluan Bayi & Ibu

Arini sebab kebosanan yang amat sangat, maklumla mood raya tu menerjah2, bukan aku kata aku eh...org2 kt opis ni. Aku? Adela sket tp xcapai tahap maksimum cm sebelum2 ni. Banyak benda nk fikir and uruskan, jadi aku adelah lebih dari serabut dan kusut. Disebabkan kekusutan inila, baik aku buat sesuatu supaya bole la function sket otak aku dr asek 'hang' je :p Arini aku nk komen and give some review on barang2 bayi & mommy's. Before aku komen aku nk jelaskan yang komen and review ni xde kaitan dengan yang hidup atau yang mati and it's just based on personal experience. The experience itself differ from one another, of course. Xde isu untuk aku mburukkan sesuatu produk, tapi mungkin bg produk yg aku xbape nk bkenan tu mayb diorg bole improve their product's quality and so on. As I've said just now, it's just a review as a customer and user.

Barang2 baby

Lampin Pakai Buang

Barang2 yang penting contohnya lampin bayi, aku guna PetPet. Aku ade bli CD but xguna lg, encik Nizam kata guna lampin pakai buang je la dlu, xnk susahkan babysitter.

My Comment : Alhamdulillah, Nabilah serasi. though this brand is cheaper than few brand yg available, syukur sgt kami dpt berjimat jugak and Nabilah pon xda rashes. My SIL cakap PetPet ni tahan lebih lama dari segi penyerapan. I applied nappy liner atas PetPet, untuk elak rashes pada mulanya, but without nappyliner Nabilah ok, kiranya my baby's skin tu xbegitu sensitif. At 2MO, PetPet bole bertahan lebih dari 4jam. And boleh dianggarkan lebih kurang 6-7 keping PetPet sehari.

Clothes, Mitten & Booties

I would prefer a common brand that is pureen. Fabric and design very simple and nice. I would prefer socks than booties, sebab lebih grip and fit. Differ from booties tu, baby's feet tu kan very small nmpk pelik bila pakai sarung kaki besar.

Shampoo, Baby bath

I would prefer johnson&johnson. Sebab ade head to toe, i think xbyk brand ade this kind of sabun. I ade guna terderly (kalo xsilap) but change to johnson&johnson coz of the 'head to toe' shampoo, so lebih selamat sketla nk apply to baby's hair.

Bottles

Avent, I xguna lg. Coz usually my baby myusu direct from storage bottles yg dihantar ke babysitter. Autumnz bottles, xbape nk fit dgn medela swing. bape kali dah susu tumpah... tensen gak. But it's not a big problem after u knew it.

My comment : Aku lg prefer bumblebee sebenarnye, sbb mmg sesuai sgt dgn medela but u have to buy another bottle medela bottle nipple utk simpanan. Coz, bumble bee xdak bg bottle nipple, penutup botol tu xleh bukak. Thanks to autumnz penutup storage bottle bole bukak, just bli bottle nipple jek.Aku xtry guna plastic storage lg sebab mls nk susahkan pengasuh tu. bole je aku simpan dlm tu, tp before gi keje, kne la tukar masuk dlm botol. Huh..leceh gile.

Sterilizer& Warmer

Brand yg kitorg bli adelah Jingle Jungle. Rupanye seakan2 Little Bean. Bli kat kedai Baby Manja Bangi. Pada mulanya, xconfident la dgn brand tu sebab dalam kepala dah aim little bean, pastu belek punye belek rupanya dia product Fab Mom, ape lg dgn harga pakej kitorg pon rembat.

My Comment :Alhamdulillah, functioning well. Cuma part warmer tu, xreti nk guna lg. Aritu try panaskan thaw EBM yg beku cm lmbt je...so rendam dgn air panas suam jek, lg cepat. Mne xnya, anak da mrengek2 nk susu, xsempat la nk tunggu warmer tu.

Travel system

Aldo Ego car seat, bole pakai from newborn until 4YO (0-18kg). Kenapa kitorg pilih carseat ni? Mende ni mmg kitorg survey lama la... nak cari carseat yg convertible and can be used longer. For baby and toddler. My Comment : Mmg sesuai dgn citarasa, and price is reasonable (murah gak sebenarnya compared to other brand). Masa pregnant tu gila dgn combination kaler merah hitam, and luckily they have these colour. Yg ni kitorg kne book sbb terlalu laku kt one baby world. heheh and now baby love to sit and sleep kat carseat ni, mayb comfortable kot.

 For stroller, kitorg mmg xde idea nk bli camane but what we have in mind is it must be something that can fit into kelisa. Can u imagine? It's like we hv few choices only. Usually baby stroller tu mmg big in size except yg 2 in 1 which is more expensive than what we expected. Coz we already hv carseat, we just need the stroller alone. Desperately finding one, and at desperate moment masa tu tgh shopping and baby is sleeping, tgn mmg da lenguh la nk dukung, we got this stroller from sweetcheery.

My Comment : A very simple yet convenient for our baby. About RM300++ jugakla. But ayah will do anything for our baby, and there goes his money =p

Enough with baby's stuff though there are a few yg aku xstory lg, but up there are the important one that I remember. And now, mommy's thing to share.

Breastpump

Medela Swing is the choice. Puas dah survey, coz of 1st timer so what I did is cari comment org pasal Bpump. Ramai yg suggest spectra juga, and begitu rmi yg puas hati dgn Medela. As this is a present from Encik Nizam, i cant demand more but be more thankful for the gift. ***Nk kua duit sdiri pon xbape nk mampu kan*** heheh

My Comment : luckily, i got this friend now. I can pump anywhere. Pada aku mmg berbaloi ade Swing, Freestyle xyah cakap la. But for beginner like me, Swing pon da cukup sbb mula2 production susu kurang. So mmg sesuai sgt. And pada aku, xdela amek masa byk sgt if kita da get used dgn pump ni. Recommended!

Nursing bra

I have a few brand yang I dah cuba and guna. From Mothercare, Fabulous Mom and Autumnz. Mothercare I bli masa pregnant, and the price most expensive from other brand I got. Sebaik guna duit sdiri hehehe. Fabulous mom I bought yg padded 'Lydia Multiway', 'Kelly' and sleep bra 'Sarah' which I hv a lot in stock =p Then, I bought Autumnz from one baby world online shop time pantang.

My comment : I LOVE LOVE LOVE Sarah sleep Bra, i have more than 5 pieces oredi. Sgt2 selesa. Even I wear at work hahaha Kelly is 2nd and Lydia I wear just few time. Xselesa pakai time breast overload. Sakit~~ All are from Fab Mom! Thumbs Up!!! Price pon mmg reasonable. Mothercare nursing bra is  like kelly type and they are ranked same as Kelly. Colour yg ade black and white. So-so je... xattractive. =p Then, the last and I will never buy this brand again **for nursing bra** is Autumnz. The design sama mcm 'Sarah' sleepbra but kain tu cepat longgar after u breastfeed ur baby/pump. Mayb material kain, and mine yg 1 tu da koyak sket hurm... pity, material kain dia sgt mudah koyak.

Tungku

Aku bli tungku moden and sgt2 berguna dikala pantang and after.

My comment : Mmg recommended! just panaskan for few minutes and the da boleh guna. Not only me, my family pon turut guna if ade sengal2 bdn org cramp.

Set Bersalin

Aku bli Nona Roguy. Yg aku da try pil phytonatal, minyak serbanika, rempah mandian dgn air akar kayu.

My comment: buat sesapa yg mmg sembelit or xlawas even before pregnant lg cm aku bagus makan ni. Mmg mudah ler sisa toksik tu keluar. Perut pon sedap je sepanjang pantang. Aku makan ni after 2weeks bersalin, takut efek baby but Alhamdulillah baby ok =) Air akar kayu tu aku telan je, buat panas badan.

Aku pon da xde idea dah nk tulis ape. Kalo nk tnye pape boleh komen. Hehhe nk keluar bli brg jap =p Daaa..~

Puasa & Raya

Kita combine skali la yerk cite posa dan raya tuk tahun ni. Actually pre raya story heheh.  Alhamdulillah Syukur tahun ni dapat lagi bertemu Ramadhan. Tapi yang sedeynya ibadat Ramadhan tahun ni, xdapat nk beribadat khusyuk 100% and tarawih pon xdapat nk buat even for a day. Sedey sketla tp syukur dapat bertemu Ramadhan, begitu byk keberkatan pd bulan ni. Buat yang wajib tu pon kalo dapat buat syukur sgt. Bila dah ada anak kecik ni, terbatas sket pergerakan, bukan nk jadikan alasan. Tapi lumrah kan... masa kita byk ditumpukan pada si kecik.

Tahun sebelum2 ni, xdela rancak buat terawih...tp ade gak pegi. Yg bestnya time buat kuih raya, masak2 untuk berbuka puasa. Mmg boleh kata, satu ape pon xbuat. ibadatnya idak, apetah lg nk masak memasak. Nabilah skang dah xboleh nk tinggal... Suka main2 dah... Kalo ayahnya xde, patah kaki la nk buat ape pon. Nk mandi and solat pon kne curi2 masa. Sebaikla ade encik Nizam yg da semakin cekap jaga Nabilah. Kalo x, xle nk berenggang pon dgn si kecik ni. Jap je merengek, eee manja btul! hehhe Sbaik gakla ade pak mertua & adik ipar yg masak2 utk berbuka. Kalo x, tpaksa mbeli jek kot. =P Heheh Baju raya thn ni, dapat gak beli..specialnya baju raya thn ni sebab baju ni senang diguna untuk susukan Nabilah nnt.

Persiapan untuk Raya, biasanya lebey excited beli brg untuk org lain. Biasa thn2 lepas pon mmg blikan bj utk adik2 and mak& abah. Saje suka2... thn ni InsyaAllah kalo ade rezeki lebey, ade la rezeki diorg. Thn ni, xtra sket, untuk Nabilah. heheh baju bdk2 ni seronok btul beli, tp...nabilah pon br 2bulan++ nk masuk 3bulan dah syawal ni. Saiz tu very limited. Setakat nk bli rompers jek untuk raya, erm ade jek yg dia xpakai lg. So xdela nk bli lg. Just bli 2psg je bj skirt cmtu, then Mak Su Shimahnya ade bg bj untuk Nabilah..heheh tomey2 jek bajunya. So 3pasang. Nk pki tomey2 sgt pon, nnt tomot2 blk. :p

Baju Ibu dan Ayah, err..ibu jek yg ade. Ayahnye sponsor hikhik. Maklumla nk myusukan baby kn, kne la sopan2 sket. So alhamdulillah jumpa gak bj yg 'available' in stock kt adrini's. Baju kurung la kn, sesuai la dgn hari raya. Bukan senang nk cr kedai yg jual baju kurung for nursing ni, aku ade jumpa a few la masa google2 for this, online shop. Yg aku minat sgt kedai ni, tp yg still available, harganya xbape mampu nk bayo hehhe mostly koleksinya mmg cpt out of stock! Laku... terlambat sket.Anyway, rasanya kedai tu mmg beroperasi spanjang thn, ade jek koleksi terbarunya. Aku mmg "LIKE" sgt style, fesyen and fabric dia. Even more, you all bole tempah utk jahit ur own fabric. Tu mmg aku tunggu, but mayb after raya la kan... Nk banyak kan koleksi untuk nursing, so that, xperlu la bawak botol ke hulu hilir, Nabilah minum fresh milk jek. senang!

Yang kelakar tu, dah la aku cr baju ni last minit, of coz la stock byk yg da abes. Aku tensen jap, sebab xde baju raya. Tensen lg sebab kne menyusukan Nabilah, xkan la nk gulung2 baju kurung yg labuh tu smpi ke dada kn?? uhuhuh ade jek org buat cmtu, tp aku segan sketla. Lg2 kalo pki bj2 yg susah nk gosok, bkomot2 ler jawabnye. Aku tensen, smpi encik Nizam pon pening layan aku ahahahha. Memang stress la kn, smpi rasa mls nk blk kampung. =p Maklumla xbiasa lg ade baby and menyusukan in public. Dah dapat jumpa ni, syukur sgt! Alhamdulillah. Thanks Encik Nizam heheheh =) Tapi sian kan kt encik Nizam, dia bli kan baju untuk Nabilah & Ibu, Ayahnya xde baju raya... Isk2 kesian. Tapi encik Nizam xmmg salu xsuka nk spend duit untuk bli baju2 sdiri. Ni la tugas aku, mbanyakkn koleksi baju2 encik Nizam. Bli baju@ seluar baru ni bukan untuk mbazir, pada aku...aku rasa tu untuk compliment diri sdiri dan org lain. Rasa seronok kadang2 tgk org pki baju tu lg2 pada hari yg special cmni kan. 

Utk persiapan raya yang lain, kuih dan kerepek mmg beli jekla. Then, duit raya xtukar lg. Tahun ni, barang xtra banyak sebab barang baby. Dok risau ni, bape helai baju la kne bawak sebab baby asyik muntah susu. Adeih... 

Anyway, to all frens & readers Selamat Mjalani Ibadah Puasa & Selamat Menyambut Syawal yg bakal tiba! =)

Bila Baby Kembung Perut

Entry kali ni nk story pasal kembung perut yg biasa jadi kt baby. Alkisahnya, semalam masa ambik nabilah kt rumah babysitter, makcik tu ckp yg nabilah kembung perut. Dalam ati aku, mula laaa aku rs xsenang ati pikir nk buat ape kt baby small aku tu kn. Rasa bersalah sgt la kn, pasal aku yg mkn...anak yg kna. *** Sob Sob Sob***

Makcik tu nasihat gak kt aku, dia pon ala-ala mak aku lebih kurang sebaya jek. Dia suh aku jaga makan minum, jgn minum ais etc... pjg dia cite tp aku ringkaskn jek la. hehhe dalam pada hati xsenang tu, aku tgk la muka baby small tu...kesian btul. Mne xnya, bdn da penat tp xboleh tdo akibat kembung tu... asek nangis jek kata makcik tu. Bg susu pastu muntah blk... ***tu mmg biasa bg nabilah*** tp lg kesian sbb dia xlena nk tdo. Kesian anak ibu. Aaahh bsalah btul rasa. Tapi, Alhamdulillah sepanjang aku ambik dia...dlm car seat tu, dia xnangis... diam jek. Tomeynye!!! Da smpi rumah aku cepat2 simpan stok susu, trus ngadap die pas dgr suara mrengek2 kt bilik atas. *** Tpaksala kn tinggalkn dia sorg atas katil kt bilik, kalo x..mau rosak susu tu***

Then, tgk2 dia nk susu. trus bg...teringt yg makcik tu kata, nabilah kentut sikit jek. Hurm...selalu kalo aku bg susu bdn tu, mmg dia kentut aje mmanjang. Angin da kluar kot, tu yg perut lega. Time ni, kentut dia mula kua sket2...Alhamdulillah. Aku pon dok risau time ni, ade ke susu..sebab aku dok sebok mgepam kt ofis before balik agak2 dlm 430ptg cmtu. Gatal btul... hurm..lama gak die bkepit tu, pastu dia lepas. Masa ni la aku amik masa nk tuka baju yg kne muntah plus baju xsesuai pakai untuk malam...  kaki nabilah pon terasa sejuk. Aku tukar bj, then letak ler minyak telon kt pusat, dada and kaki dia...selawat2 sket and niat dlm hati moga baby small jauh dr penyakit mudarat dan mudahkan sgala urusan kami. Dah tuka baju tu, nabila merengek lg nk susu, kali ni...nabilah kentut banyak kali. Alhamdulillah. Even masa maghrib pon xsudah melekap lg. Xsure la lapar ke just untuk feel comfort Nabilah buat cmtu... tp dlm kol 8 cmtu, dia lepas and tdo...

Hurm, encik nizam blk lewat sket, around 7 cmtu. Then, tlg temankan berbuka kt bilik jek. Kitorg bfikir2 nape la Nabilah kembung@cmne nk buat kn?! Syukur sgt, semalam dia tdo lama... tdo kol 8, bgn kol 9.... then after menyusu and change diaper, tdo balik about 10, until 1am. Maknanya.... dia dah lega dr kembung. Aku rasa sebab aku mkn taugeh kot aritu...eiii sengal! Aku suka makan sayur, and pantang nmpk sayur aku akan makan. Skang aku rasa sedey sebab ade jek sayur yg aku xleh makan =( Anyway, td aku try search pasal kembung and ada few info yg aku nk share kt sini.

Punca : Angin masuk dalam perut bayi ketika proses penyusuan mgunakan susu botol, akibat menangis atau bernafas, pemakanan ibu

Tanda-tanda : Bayi tidak selesa, menangis sepanjang hari dgn sekuat hati, kaki ditarik ke perut tangan dikepal, tidak mahu tdo, perut keras dan terik

Cara untuk mengelakkan dari kembung : Sendawakan bayi setelah selesai proses penyusuan, penggunaan minyak telon, Tuam perut bayi dangan kerap, gripe water

Ni few info yang aku dapat, just nk sharing dgn sume. Skang aku nk bli tuam untuk baby smallku, online... cm bes jek =p

:: First Day ::

Assalamualaikum All!!! Pergh terasa lama pulak xupdate blog and mcm2 nk diceritakan. Today is my first day working lepas habis pantang and that means today My Nabilah sudah pun mcecah 2MO!!! Sudah besar anak Ibu....adadadada (uhuk2...) Just now br jek lepas mengepam, tetiba ade pulak kwn mengepam td, Cayalaaa...sempat jugakla dia share some tips on pumping and storing EBM ni. ***Aku sgtla cetek ilmu part ni*** Nk tnya gak, ape gaknya efek pd baby kalo kita bg re-freeze thawed milk? Ok, aku mengaku, aku buat silap tu..sian kt anak aku tau disebabkan kecetekan ilmu aku. Hurm... so, pas member sorg td sharing2 pasal experience dia td, and give few tips...aku tetiba rasa nk bli extra freezer@ i have to clearkn ruang kt fridge umah pak mertua aku ***kuang asam x? sesuka ati jek nk conquer space fridge bapak mertua aku***

Bukan ape... aku rasa aku nk bg anak aku fresh EBM, coz before ni aku simpan kt area freezer, susu beku... tiap hari bg anak minum susu beku, sian kt dia. Then mbazir la kn sebab susu beku tu xboleh simpan blk after dah thawed kn??!! Kne la aku talk heart-to-heart dgn masalah yg dihadapi... sebab stok susu makin banyak. Rasa rugi pulak aku pam ngam2 jek, coz in future baby akan minum susu lebih dr skarang. Kalo pam ngam2, susu akan bkurangan. Oooo aku sgt sedey. Tp kalo beli freezer br tu, sian pulak kt suami aku dok mlayan kerenah aku yg mcm2 ni, bulan2 bil mlambung :p Er..aku xkesah kalo duit freezer tu aku bayar ***nk simpan susu punyer pasal***tp tula, kne diskas dgn tuan empunya rumah ni hikhik.

Sekarang setelah jadi Ibu ni few things yg menjadi priority dan kerunsingan aku antaranya :-

• Babysitter
• Supply Susu
• Flexibility Kerja
• Makan Minum
• Aktvt Sosial

Babysitter da jumpa, of coz sbb harini pon suda masuk kerja baahh. Hantar kt rumah org jek, risau nk hantar baby kt nurseri... hantar kt rumah org pon risau jugak, tp ape boleh buat. Harap2 pengasuh tu jaga nabilah cm anak sendiri... Pak Mertua ku yg carikan org ni, kebetulan isteri pd kenalannya. Alhamdulillah. Da hantar Nabilah a week before start keje, lebih mudah untuk nabilah and ibunya sesuaikan diri. Persediaan emosi tu, mau xnya bkepit dgn baby masa pantang, tetiba nk hantar kt org.Sedey Woo.. tp sbaik aku mengentalkan jiwa ini.uhuhuhu

Supply susu spt yg aku cite kt atas. Kerisauan aku tentang susu xcukup in future akibat aku pam ngam2 jek... hurmkalo ikutkan, susu memang banyak, tp tula.... xcukup space nk simpan EBM tu sume. Buat masa ni, susu beku simpanan ade lebih kurang 12 cmtu... number tu maintain jek sobsob takut nnt baby dah makin kuat mnyusu aku lak xdpt supply spt kehendak dia...Sedeynye =(

Kerja skang ni, xmjamin ape2 lg. Biasa la kontraktor macam aku ni, btahan ikut kontrak jek. Bila da tarikh luput, terminate la kn. Xde projek xde kerja la gamaknya. So...aku kne mula mcari2 lubang kerja yg ade...yg mnawarkan enviroment dan kerja yg flexible. Flexible cmne??? Cm skang ni heheh In-Out xkesah asalkan keje. Susah jugak kn nk cr enviroment cmni...tp aku redha dan tawakal, harap2 dapatla keje tbaik buat aku.

Disebabkan menyusukan baby, so xsume mende bole makan dan minum. Kne control, kalo x sian pulak kt baby. Masalahnye, xsure jugak ape yg boleh and ape yg x... Kdg2 kite ni teringin kan nk mkn itu ini, trasa kempunan la pulak bila da xle makan. Tp ape kan daya, pikirkan anak tu...xsanggup nk mkn. Ais tu still bole control lg, xsedap mne pon rasa ais tu...sejuk aje. Tkilan jek bila org masak2 kita xleh nk mkn...lg2 bulan puasa ni kan, da la puasa... pastu xle makan. Makan nasi dgn telur goreng jekla jawabnya. uhuhuhu lg sedey nk raya ni, ade x mende yg aku xdpt nk telan nnt??? kuah kacang??? adeih...ape lg? sabo jekla

Aktiviti bersosial semestinya xseperti dolu2 kan. Macam ler sosial sgt...huuhuh skang da xkua mlm pon. Takut2 jugak nk bawak baby kluar, takut dia mragam2. Sian jugak kt baby nnt xselesa. Tp smpi bila yer? Aritu tnya Mak aku, dia kata tunggu ler smpi leher dia tu keras. Hahaha kelakar plak cite pasal leher budak kecik tu, mlayang2 rasanya leher tu,lg2 bila nk tdo or tlalu kenyang mnyusu hiikhikhik

Memang best and xabes2 la kalo cite pasal anak ni, ada aje keletahnya. Xsabar nk tunggu baby besar sket, bole bwk jalan2 =)hikhik.

Two Weeks Plus

June 28... That makes 18 days old my lil Nabilah Insyirah and alhamdulillah start BF since the first day. Of Coz la kena kan, encik Nizam memantau aku hikhik! Lgpon, napela xsusu bdn jek...bila tu rezeki tcipta untuk anak yg comel dan mungil kn. Bila tgk baby tu, trus rs nk BF jek walaupon before *time pregnant* xdela sesemangat itu. And kami *Encik Nizam and Me* pon xpenah decide and discuss anything on buying FM for our baby. Erm nk kata exclusively BF xtaula cmne term tu kn...tp ade cmpur sikit dgn air zam2 time awl2 tu coz kne jaundis... Itu salah satu usaha jek. Tp progress, alhamdulillah...Nabilah behave well, and sihat wal afiat skrg. Kuning pon xde Alhamdulillah. 

Cite pasal BF ni, time pregnant dlu rajin gak baca pasal ni utk tmbah ilmu didada. Ramai kata 1st to 3rd day, susu badan xde, so kne tabah sket la untuk BF. Aku sgt2 bsyukur, atas galakan family and especially of coz Encik Nizam, aku boleh harungi semua ni. Aku rasa mayb sebab aku 'slow' sket kot hahhah bukan slow ape, cm blur... so aku follow jek la ape org kata, ape org buat..utk yg terbaik. Aku pon direct BF jek nabilah walaupon xsure ade susu ke x...yg pasti usaha aku tu untuk diri aku dan baby. Dlu tfikir gak pasal malu untuk BF ni, tp when baby ade depan mata...automatically i want to BF my baby! Kuasa Allah... hati wanita mjadi lembut bila jadi ibu kn.

Tempoh berpantang juga sudah mencecah 2weeks plus! And I can say it's hard without my hubby around. Sape yg penah merasai, tau la kn. Bukan nk gedik ke hape tp u hv spend a lot of time together ms pregnancy then for nearly 2months cuti bsalin tu...he's not around. Rs pelik sketla...but Alhamdulillah my Mak ade for the first week, and I hv to be independent for the rest of cuti bsalin holiday except for weekends. But gladly, ade la org kt rumah tlg2 masak and bantu ape yg patut...Thanks to my sis and abah. Xtcapai akal ku cmne aku nk survive alone, when it's only a week after bsalin. 

In about two more weeks time, akan ada checkup for baby and Ibu. Xdapat imagine nk bawak Nabilah keluar jalan2 for the first time...

10th June 2011

10th June 2011, date yg dipilih utk force labour.. should I be happy or not, i'm not so sure at the time. But Allah itu Maha mendengar doa hambanya. Segalanya dipermudahkan... segalanya bemula pd tarikh ini juga.

At about 5 something A.M. - rs cm xbole tdo, then... rs sesuatu keluar. I just still stay in bed, waiting until subuh prayer. But then, something happen... terasa a rush of water overflow, like im pee-ing heavily. My water broke. Air ketuban pecah, 'ter'lompat jap dr katil, konon nk elak basah, tp mmg da basah pon... Abes basah lantai dgn air jernih itu. Tkejut encik nizam dgn lompatan aku tu... hahha mne taknye, ape kejadahnye nk mlompat pg2 and time pregnant kn?! Encik Nizam pon decided kitorg ke hospital after solat, and I just agreed. Xsakit pon air ketuban tu pecah, but the contraction became more frequent.

7.30 or so we are on our way to DEMC. Dekat sgt hospital tu dgn rumah...about 5-10min je. Sampai2, encik Nizam trus parking at parking lot, xtrus ke emergency room... logik gakla kn. Aku xsakit sgt and nothing to rush. So, we walked in the hospital trus ke level 2, the labour room. Trus diarah ke bilik labour, then kalo xsilap bidan yg standby mlm dtg trus buat VE and CTG. Aku ingt xingt dah...rsnya mayb dalam 2-3cm da dilate. 

At about 8-9 aku diberi breakfast, ubat mbuang... after that came the water drip cucuk sana sini....and also bila tgk aku da sakit2 tu, doc propose to take a pain killer, bukan bius tu. Xsama.. heheh but the pain still remain. Aku pon xphm nape dipanggil pain killer. Aku dok bertawakal zikir sume, assist by encik Nizam disisi... Family aku telah diinform just after aku admitted so...mayb at that time diorg on their way.

1130 Nurse masuk bilik to cek my progress, pd mulanya expected to deliver at evening about 2-3 pm. But hati aku xsenang, maklumla hari Jumaat,tkejar2 pulak encik nizam nk solat lg. bdoa2la aku agar segalanya mudah. Bg aku, Encik Nizam dan semua org. Nurse ckp, da fully dilate. 10cm.... WOW cepat, aku pon xsangka, nurse xsangka, Encik Nizam xsangka...but Allah itu Maha Mengetahui segala sesuatu. Alhamdulillah, aku bsyukur dlm hati walaupon tgh sakit2 tu.. dgn harapan cepatla kesakitan itu berakhir dan agar Allah mbantu aku yg dah xbdaya sgt2 time tu. Nurse already in their position untuk assist aku. Push2... xingtla berapa kali aku dok push2 but... adela dlm 45min, br nurse kata...da nmpk rmbut. And at the time, doc masuk, I hv only about 15min jek lg untk push2... diorg mmg extimate 1hour je ke untuk normal labour, im not sure. Masa doc masuk, smgt sket nk push but still, masa tu sbb da xcukup tenaga...

1224pm Lahirla baby kedunia with vacum assist. Alhamdulillah berjaya normal without epidural or any of the drugs *except pain killer* Alhamdulillah, hanya Allah saja yg tau perasaan aku sebab aku xpercaya aku sama ada aku bole lakukannya atau tidak. Im not sure myself. Bdn terasa penat beberapa hari before bsalin, xcukup tdo. And lepas bberapa kali usaha push2 tu, aku tawakal je...

Dengan ini mempersembahkan :-

Nabilah Insyirah Bt Nizammuddin

2.63kg

Normal asst. vacum

10th June 2011 12:24pm

Alhamdulillah... Syukur =)

Air Penawar

Air Penawar untuk bersalin atau lebih glemer dipanggil 'Air Selusuh'. Xtau gak dari mana dapat nama selusuh ni, tapi ia adalah seperti satu adat bagi wanita hamil yg hampir bsalin meminumnya. Tapi to me, lg suka panggil ia sebagai 'air penawar' sebab berasaskan ayat Al-Quran., xdela  dengar cm air jampi ke ape kn :p... seram pulak panggil air selusuh aahahah. Sejak dari start bulan ke-8 da start survey2 cara2 untuk buat air penawar ni, disamping cuba mintak my atok tlg buatkan... heheh saje bg die busy2 sket, dr dok sebuk risau anak cucu...xsenang hati. Heheh and I found this site yg terangkan cara2 mbuat air selusuh sama seperti yang my atok ajar, referring to Al-Quran and As-sunnah. Disebabkan air yg my atok bg da nk abes pon, so..I decided to do it myself or ask encik Nizam to do it for me (hehhe encik Nizam, u owe me!) Xpe, I pon nk try buat air selusuh ni sdiri, sama2 buat nnt dgn encik Nizam. Tp kalo encik Nizam tlg buatkn, bagus jugak. InsyaAllah..berkat doa suami, segalanya dpermudahkn :-)

Anyway, for my reference and others yang sudi baca, I letak kt blog ni la okeyh!

• Air penawar ni berunsurkan air atau/dan minyak. I'd prefer air, coz mudah sket nak telan and sapu2 kt perut. 
• Air terbaik adalah air zam2... Depends, kalau ada supply air zam2, boleh la guna. Kalau xde, air mineral @ air masak pon bole, InsyaAllah.

Cara2 membuat dengan membaca ayat dibawah dan ditiupkan pada air penawar itu.

• Al-Fatihah
• Ayat 21-24 Surah Al-Hasyr

•  Selawat Syifaa

• Doa

Terjemahan : "Ya Allah, dengan hak Maryam, juga hak hamba yang diturunkan kepadanya surah Maryam, ringankanlah daripadanya (nama isteri bt nama ibunya) penderitaan bersalin, dengan rahmatMu, wahai Tuhan yang amat mengasihani dari segala-galanya".

Air bolehla diminum dan diamalkan, InsyaAllah bagi membantu dan memudahkan dalam tempoh sakit bersalin. Tp me, da start minum da pon... ahahha. Minum je, sebab air tu skali dgn air surah yassin. So pas ni dah boleh buat air penawar sdiri... =) 

Selamat mencuba, mudah2an membantu!

Antenatal Class

Mmg excited dgn entry kali ni sampai xtau nk mula camne... hahahha ***weng*** 

Encik Nizam and I br pas attend antenatal class at DEMC, at first pikir2 jugak...perlu kah, nk gi kah? But Encik Nizam kind of interested tuk join this class and I thought why not kan? Ibunya pulak agak slow sket respon hahaha... 

 

This is the scheduled activity for the day. I would say it was a great experience and would like to recommend for those mother and father-to-be to join in any antenatal class! Especially for the 'first-timer'... Some would say, why should I join?, It's expensive... or it's a common sense! uhuhuh I would say yes and no... Yes, it's a bit pricy but it's the knowledge and experience which u cant buy. And why u should join...simply because it's educational. You wouldn't know until u learn... anyway, it is from the expert kan? Just be there, listen, take part and learn! You'll enjoy it! 

Actually I'm a bit tired to attend the antenatal class that day, because of there's a birthday celebration of my dear nephew, Irfan. My SIL was excited to proceed with the birthday party plan as there's no other week that will make fine for everyone, and gladly she has change the date to Saturday as I cant attend on Sunday. Thanks anyway, I enjoyed it so much...coz dpt jugak jumpa Ipan that day uhuhuh. I was a bit exhausted and tired but baby was so excited waking me up...until I cant even taking a short nap after my Subuh prayer... 

We reached DEMC at about 815a.m to register and the organizer kindly asked us to have a breakfast first before proceed with the activity at 845a.m. We met with Rahim & wife, Lela... he's one of RE at work. Xsangka pulak ade org yg dikenali join the same class..uhuhuh. (Owhh...suka terlajak cite merepek2 kan? -_-'' )

First activity was a talk by nutritionist, a representative from Fonterra. She explain bout what should be taken by mama & baby. She also said that pregnant mummies need extra 300kcal /day and those who are breastfeeding needs an extra of 500kcal! How do u know its 300kcal? Dia bg few contoh foods yg contain about the same amount such as nasi ayam and 2glass of Anmum milk.. Of coz la die suggest the anmum milk, as she represents the brand. Few games conducted by her and free gifts! Me and encik nizam got 2 gifts from her! Thanks! ^o^ (CD and soft toy!) Haa... tringt pasal soft toys ni, die ade mention yg babies (i think few months age) only can detect 3colors that is red, white and black... 

Next activity was with Dr Norleen, she's one of the O&G specialist at DEMC and also she's one of the founder! “Pregnancy & Labour Process” adalah topik yang ditunggu2 oleh semua. Mana xnya, this is the one yang akan dihadapi xlama lg. And most yang attend pon already 7 months and above.. 'It is an art' when she describe about the process of delivering. The slide show was real and live, about the labour process. Dalam proses bersalin ni, usually ada 3 doc yang akan terlibat that is O&G, Anaesthetist & Paed... and so, we start with O&G doc dlu. Dr Norleen xsentuh banyak part pregnancy as we all hv went through it already. Its the labour process was most concentrated. Usually it's about 37weeks  process delivering tu bole berlaku and there's 2 kind of delivery process whether it will be normal or through operation (c-sect). There's 3 stage u've gone through before coming to the labour room... She describe to us how is it actually the real pain of delivering, symptom2, the range of delivering hours (it usually take about 8-16hours of 1st symptom, then at 2nd stage will be around an hour to two..the final will be about half an hour ....if I'm not wrong). Then, she explain on how the doc decided it's a normal procedure or operation needed based on the current situation of baby and mother. She also shows us the tool  used in the labour room such as forceps. hahah masa tgk forceps tu, berpikir2 gakla... mende besi ni, masuk dalam rahim...xngilu ke? Memangla xde perasaan tgk benda tu sbb dalam hati ni kne tabah sket kn... kalo cuak, mau xmau bersalin pulak ahhaha.Tawakal ajela...

The next doc was Anaesthetist, and he was Dr Jaseemuddin, funny guy. At first, a video presented as introduction...funny one! Hilanglah rasa ngantuk2 after having breakfast uhuhuuh... anaest. ni biasa org lebih kenal dgn nama doc bius. He's one of the doc in charge if there's a need of Epidural and so. Though the epidural is the most recommended but better u experience it in normal way...he said. Then, it was Doc Ahmad, Paed at DEMC turn to proceed with the class... Its a post-natal education what he's presenting. Very informative... but at the time I already became dizzy (haduih...ngantuk gile!) Hoping that time pass faster... Dah xdpt focus.

The next was a tour to labour room and maternity ward. As we walked and viewed the room, I realize mcm xbyk jek double bedded room. And I asked encik nizam, btul ke? Can we afford.? (Kne la pikir gak kn, org len yg kne kua duit). He then asked Encik Din (Organizer), and as we expected... biasanya bilik2 tu adalah fully occupied. If full jugak, then they hv to transfer patient ke level 5 ward, which is executive ward. Then, If xda bilik tu...we hv to be transfer to single bedded room laa... Rasanya keluasan bilik single bedded tu lebih kurang ruang double-bedded (as xdpt view bilik double tu coz of occupied at that time) bezanya adelah privacy and the toilet, u've to shared. TV, both sides ada... hehhehe. Then, encik Din bawa kitorg ke Suite room~ woowwwww!! siap ada theme lg tu. exclusive la kan... berangan aje la! hahaha...

Then, lunch break. Anyway... we've been served 4 times meal! Banyak tu.. rasanya asyik ke toilet je. Sebaik toilet bersih! hikhik After the break, ada match game, 2 partners per team. It's like a puzzle game. Guess what??!!! We won the prize, it's a pair of lil teddy. 'we dont hv to buy bears for her anymore ...we got 2 for free!' I said to encik nizam :p Really2 hoping that the next talk wouldnt make me sleep, thanks Allah... It doesnt! Malah, lg bersemangat untuk dgr! Pn Jasmeen Tay Abdullah talked about breastfeeding...with a demo lagi! heheh There's a lot yang dikongsikan tentang penyusuan, teknik &kaedah, faedah and so on. (Thanks to ARNA for sharing about barangan mengepam!) Anyway, few tips shared by Pn Jasmeen was choose the right brand of breastpump, which has similar suction as a baby. This is important as the pump will help the breast to generate more milk, and causes no pain to mommies. There's only 4 brand of bpump have been recommended... Spectra 3, Ameda.., Medela (but not all type) and 1 more...xingt! She's recommending double pumping, as it's more effective for working mommies. Storage bottle pulak, Pn Jasmeen showed MLO bottles which is BPA free plus it's been proven as 100% safe ,food-grade material. Bottles ni dpt maintain the nutritions yang ade dlm breastmilk compared to plastic storage, though it's cheaper but 60% of the nutritions susu ibu akan hilang semasa penggunaan plastik ini. Anyway, plastik ni pakai buang..so the material itself pon xmyakinkan... It's an eye opening, what she has shared with us. Everyone was concentrating while listening to her. I cant get enough pulak when the session ended...like...plz tell me more! 

The final activity was with ms physiotherapist, its a physical activities. Exercises yang ditunjukkan bagi mengurangkan rasa sakit2 badan and memudahkan bersalin! Mmg hilang rasa ngantuk after this session as we dah warming up and cooling down... hikhik bakal2 ayah pon turut sama buat senaman :p

Kesimpulan, memang experience yg bagus! Depends jugak pada minat masing2, mcm yg I attend ni more on oral presentation. Mayb ada yg lebih pada hands-on activity... anyway, yang ni pon enough for me to say its beneficial! And mendapat support encik nizam lagi, adalah sgt2 penting kan. (Coz there're some yang xberapa bertuah untuk join, as their spouse doesnt encourage and xsupport..kesian) But for me, Alhamdulillah... Banyak jugak yang xdpt share dekat sini, as too much to type plus ingt2 lupa... heheehe anyway, hopefully this will help sape2 yg nk join the class, a few overview..just sharing my experience.

Nothing u'll gain and experience unless you try it!

Berpantang

No...Noo..Noooooooooooooo..... Xbole buat itu, Xbole buat ini. Uuu saya adelah tidak penah berpantang (of coz) dan macam xsesuai jek dgn diriku. Xdapat imagine ouhhh (sigh -_-")... Saat2 berpantang inila yg xberapa digemari oleh ibu2 selepas bersalin sebab banyak pantang larang, terutamanya menyentuh bab makan dan aktiviti seharian. Maklumla bagi yg dah terbiasa dgn aktiviti lasak dan rutin yang pack, rasa agak tertekan sedikit akibat terikat dengan pantang. 

Tapi, apa yang hendak dibincangkan utk post kali ni adalah barang2 kperluan untuk berpantang. (Kerana telah di'brainwash' oleh akak iparku (SIL) aritu, aku terus terpikir ttg barang2 keperluan ni, sebok dgn brg2 baby smpi lupa brg utk ibu...adeihh). Bukan xterpikir langsung, cumanya xtahu ape yang diperlukan dengan lebih jelas. huhuhu yang ada dlm list spt dalam post ni.

• Set bersalin (minyak urut, pil, lulur, bedak sejuk, akar herba dsb)
• Jamu
• bengkung
• tungku moden

Perkara2 diatas adalah sangat penting hokeyyyy terutama bengkung, as my SIL ckp die nk pinjamkan dia punya. At first, mmg rasa nk bli je sebab insyaAllah next time bole guna lg, dan untuk simpanan sendiri kan. Of coz nk bli yg moden punye trus, yg zip hikhik tp my SIL da volunteer and die kata xyah mbazir (die mmg sorg yg cekap bbelanja) so... i depend on her jekla utk bengkung tu. So, kira bengkung - DONE! Seterusnya, adelah set bersalin. Set bersalin ni pada mulanya, ingt xberapa penting sebab kononnya makcik yang tlg2 urut tu akan prepare sumenya, but bak kata few bloggers and SIL, mende ni utk kegunaan kita jugak, later2 after abes mengurut. Utk bantu perjalanan darah disamping buang sume kotoran dan melawas sistem pencernaan. Takut2 kne sembelit nnt, perlula sesuatu yang memudahkn kita utk membuang suma sisa toksin dlm bdn kan?? uhuhu saya sangat lah tidak tau set bersalin ini sgt penting! 

Jadinya, setelah menjadikan ia sbgai top priority barang yang perlu disurvey dan beli, ade few blog and suggested item to buy bole dijumpa disini dan disini. Dari apa yang dibaca, most recommended produk is Nona Roguy (NR), but depends gakla pada kesan terhadap individu sebenarnya. Kadang2 sesuatu produk tu xsuit dengan tindakbalas bdn seseorg. Tapi, disebabkan ramai yang recommend, so ingt nak beli la produk ni, tapi kne survey habes2an dolu, for best price and supaya xmenyesal! Antara produk lain yang femmes dalam penghasilan produk bersalin ni, xlain xbukan produk dari Mak Dara, 'Set Bersalin Mak Halimah Jamu Mak Dara'. Encik Nizam sangatla suka dengan produk Mak Dara ni, bukan apa, mungkin penglibatan mak dara secara komersil menaikkan produk kampung seperti ini dalam membantu penjagaan badan wanita luar dan dalam. uhuhuh... tapi harusla di survey jugak sebab pandangan2 pengguna juga penting kn?? Ada a few lagi, but i've eyed for these two produk jekla kot(mengecilkan scope). 

Another thing is tungku moden ni. Mak2 zaman dolu2 amek batu sungai jek kot untuk buat tungku. (huhu teringt kt my mom ms dia bpantang dlu) Panaskan atas dapur gas tu, agak2 da panas sket, balut dgn kain untuk adjust kehangatan. mcm tu jek...senang. Hurm~~ xpe, kalo harga murah bole la diconsider yer! 

Will update later, seteleh decide untuk bli! Stay tune!