Ramadhan Ooo Ramadhan

14 Ramadhan, pejam celik dah hampir 2minggu berpuasa... 1 hari suda tumbang, disebabkn xsahur. Coz ade experience penah xsahur masa pregnant ni mbuatkn badan mgigil2...then i just proceed with keputusan xpuasa. Kan ade rukhsah bg wanita menyusukan dan mgandung bg tidak berpuasa. Allah itu Maha Mengetahui dan Menyayangi hamba-Nya.

Berbezanya tahun ni dengan yang sebelum2nya... Thn ni, kali ke-3 berpuasa sebagai Isteri, kali ke-2 sbg ibu dan kali pertama dlm keadaan pregnant di bulan ramadhan. =) Cabaran bpuasa tahun ni lebih besar sebab pregnant dah minggu ke 32++ tp alhamdulillah sedikit keringanan dan hikmah susu badan dah xde, xmyusukan Nabilah lg. Xtaula mcmana ibu2 kt luar sana dlm bulan ramadhan ni bpuasa, myusukan, dan pregnant dalam masa yang sama. Memang kagum! Hebat dan Tabah!!! Aku skang ni pon blk umah je da lembik sebenarnye, tp gagahkn jugak diri untuk bantu2 kat dapur.

As previous year, ayah mertua mmg akan myediakn juadah (apa yg mampu disediakn) depends pd masanye, kadang2 masak, kadang2 beli. My SIL pon ada, (coz we're still living at my FIL hse) whoever yg ada kt rumah, will provide dan kemas2 la ape yg patut. Pd keadaan aku skang nk bmalas2 pon xboleh...maklumla kita duduk kt umah org kn, segan la pulak. tp dlm condition skarang nk paksa diri nnt sdiri yg pengsan. Harap2 mereka faham. Harapla sgt. ***Kalo xphm.... saya redha*** uhuhuhuh 

Pemakanan bagi wanita pregnant ni sangat penting, mula2 haritu before ramadhan lg, I da start bpuasa ***puasa ganti*** plus sebagai persediaan utk sambut Ramadhan ni. Takut2 xlarat...nk tgk kemampuan, maklumla sentiasa rasa lapar je. Tp Alhamdulillah.... syukur pd Allah. Mcm xpercaya... bjaya jugak habeskn 13hari puasa ganti before Ramadhan. Dengan izin Allah jugak, makanan sunnah yg diamalkn tu mmg mberi kesan positif sepanjang berpuasa. Im the type yg susah sket nk jamah nasi time bsahur, i usually drink a glass of plain water je. Tp bcause of my husband ni jenis yg mjaga pemakanan, makanan yg sihat dan sunnah...so sikit2 I pon terikut2. Nak xnk kan..cuba je pada mulanya. Mmg syukur, lepas amalkn dapat bertahan walaupun hanya dengan segelas susu kambing, kurma dan jus Tok Guru. My husband ahli HR Marketting tu, so Susu Kambing HR la jd pilihan kami. Kalau bminat bolehla cuba. Tp semuanye depend pd selera seseorg dan kembali pd-Nya...atas Izin-Nya.

Tahun lepas rasanya masa berbuka puasa paling mcabar, sbb myusukn Nabilah, then, masih berpantang makan. Disbbkn duduk rumah FIL, my FIL xberapa tau sgt pasal pantang ni...maklumla lelaki. Xingtla ape yg I dapat mkn dlu... ala kadar je bbuka. Tahun ni, pregnant pulak, mmg selera pon xseberapa. My FIL mmg pandai masak, bak kata dia 'masak ikut selera sdiri'. Tp Alhamdulillah bole la mkn, kdg2 dia rajin jugak belajar dr kawan resipi2 yg die bkenan. Masakan feveret FIL kebanyakkn berunsur santan mcm kari, masak lemak cili padi. Bab masak lemak cili padi I mmg suka jugak, tp bapak mertua suka masak ikan keli + rebung***ttttttttttttttttteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeetttttttttttttttt*** I dun like, ntah sbb ape..tp kalo die goreng tu kdg2 bole la telan, mayb sbb garing kot. I dun ike lembik2. Dalam banyak2 die masak I suka die masak daging masak itam. Maveles!!! Errr pe lg, ayam goreng utk nasik ayam tu.... Uih maveles laaa ***bulan2 posa ni kalo ckp pasal mknn isk2 laju jek kn***

Xdapat imagine kalo nnt da pindah rumah sdiri, bole cope ke dgn kerja, anak2, kerja rumah, memasak eh... I mmg suka mmasak, da xsabar nk ada dapo sdiri tau! Da berangan mcm2 tp xtaula...akan masak atau x???!!! Confirmla masak kn! Husband I kdg2 rajin gak request. Aaaaa excitednye nk ade dapo sdiri, nk masak lauk ikot suka hati. Pandai masak tu idak ler, tp sbb rasa nk mkn mcm2 suka la nk cuba2. Hehehe 

Doakan kami berjaya dgn rumah kami nnt. Dalam process insyaAllah. Tp banyak yg perlu diselesaikn sbelum bpindah. Proses biasa... rumah lama kn. hehehhe xde aral, ujung thn @ thn depan plg awl masuk rumah. InsyaAllah.Will be missing memori duduk di rumah FIL bsama2 my ILs. Pahit manis pon ditelan jugak...semua pon adelah lumrah kehidupan..warna warni org kata.

Semoga kita semua berjumpa lg dengan Ramadhan tahun hadapan. Dengan Izin-Nya..Amin.

Two Weeks Plus

June 28... That makes 18 days old my lil Nabilah Insyirah and alhamdulillah start BF since the first day. Of Coz la kena kan, encik Nizam memantau aku hikhik! Lgpon, napela xsusu bdn jek...bila tu rezeki tcipta untuk anak yg comel dan mungil kn. Bila tgk baby tu, trus rs nk BF jek walaupon before *time pregnant* xdela sesemangat itu. And kami *Encik Nizam and Me* pon xpenah decide and discuss anything on buying FM for our baby. Erm nk kata exclusively BF xtaula cmne term tu kn...tp ade cmpur sikit dgn air zam2 time awl2 tu coz kne jaundis... Itu salah satu usaha jek. Tp progress, alhamdulillah...Nabilah behave well, and sihat wal afiat skrg. Kuning pon xde Alhamdulillah. 

Cite pasal BF ni, time pregnant dlu rajin gak baca pasal ni utk tmbah ilmu didada. Ramai kata 1st to 3rd day, susu badan xde, so kne tabah sket la untuk BF. Aku sgt2 bsyukur, atas galakan family and especially of coz Encik Nizam, aku boleh harungi semua ni. Aku rasa mayb sebab aku 'slow' sket kot hahhah bukan slow ape, cm blur... so aku follow jek la ape org kata, ape org buat..utk yg terbaik. Aku pon direct BF jek nabilah walaupon xsure ade susu ke x...yg pasti usaha aku tu untuk diri aku dan baby. Dlu tfikir gak pasal malu untuk BF ni, tp when baby ade depan mata...automatically i want to BF my baby! Kuasa Allah... hati wanita mjadi lembut bila jadi ibu kn.

Tempoh berpantang juga sudah mencecah 2weeks plus! And I can say it's hard without my hubby around. Sape yg penah merasai, tau la kn. Bukan nk gedik ke hape tp u hv spend a lot of time together ms pregnancy then for nearly 2months cuti bsalin tu...he's not around. Rs pelik sketla...but Alhamdulillah my Mak ade for the first week, and I hv to be independent for the rest of cuti bsalin holiday except for weekends. But gladly, ade la org kt rumah tlg2 masak and bantu ape yg patut...Thanks to my sis and abah. Xtcapai akal ku cmne aku nk survive alone, when it's only a week after bsalin. 

In about two more weeks time, akan ada checkup for baby and Ibu. Xdapat imagine nk bawak Nabilah keluar jalan2 for the first time...

10th June 2011

10th June 2011, date yg dipilih utk force labour.. should I be happy or not, i'm not so sure at the time. But Allah itu Maha mendengar doa hambanya. Segalanya dipermudahkan... segalanya bemula pd tarikh ini juga.

At about 5 something A.M. - rs cm xbole tdo, then... rs sesuatu keluar. I just still stay in bed, waiting until subuh prayer. But then, something happen... terasa a rush of water overflow, like im pee-ing heavily. My water broke. Air ketuban pecah, 'ter'lompat jap dr katil, konon nk elak basah, tp mmg da basah pon... Abes basah lantai dgn air jernih itu. Tkejut encik nizam dgn lompatan aku tu... hahha mne taknye, ape kejadahnye nk mlompat pg2 and time pregnant kn?! Encik Nizam pon decided kitorg ke hospital after solat, and I just agreed. Xsakit pon air ketuban tu pecah, but the contraction became more frequent.

7.30 or so we are on our way to DEMC. Dekat sgt hospital tu dgn rumah...about 5-10min je. Sampai2, encik Nizam trus parking at parking lot, xtrus ke emergency room... logik gakla kn. Aku xsakit sgt and nothing to rush. So, we walked in the hospital trus ke level 2, the labour room. Trus diarah ke bilik labour, then kalo xsilap bidan yg standby mlm dtg trus buat VE and CTG. Aku ingt xingt dah...rsnya mayb dalam 2-3cm da dilate. 

At about 8-9 aku diberi breakfast, ubat mbuang... after that came the water drip cucuk sana sini....and also bila tgk aku da sakit2 tu, doc propose to take a pain killer, bukan bius tu. Xsama.. heheh but the pain still remain. Aku pon xphm nape dipanggil pain killer. Aku dok bertawakal zikir sume, assist by encik Nizam disisi... Family aku telah diinform just after aku admitted so...mayb at that time diorg on their way.

1130 Nurse masuk bilik to cek my progress, pd mulanya expected to deliver at evening about 2-3 pm. But hati aku xsenang, maklumla hari Jumaat,tkejar2 pulak encik nizam nk solat lg. bdoa2la aku agar segalanya mudah. Bg aku, Encik Nizam dan semua org. Nurse ckp, da fully dilate. 10cm.... WOW cepat, aku pon xsangka, nurse xsangka, Encik Nizam xsangka...but Allah itu Maha Mengetahui segala sesuatu. Alhamdulillah, aku bsyukur dlm hati walaupon tgh sakit2 tu.. dgn harapan cepatla kesakitan itu berakhir dan agar Allah mbantu aku yg dah xbdaya sgt2 time tu. Nurse already in their position untuk assist aku. Push2... xingtla berapa kali aku dok push2 but... adela dlm 45min, br nurse kata...da nmpk rmbut. And at the time, doc masuk, I hv only about 15min jek lg untk push2... diorg mmg extimate 1hour je ke untuk normal labour, im not sure. Masa doc masuk, smgt sket nk push but still, masa tu sbb da xcukup tenaga...

1224pm Lahirla baby kedunia with vacum assist. Alhamdulillah berjaya normal without epidural or any of the drugs *except pain killer* Alhamdulillah, hanya Allah saja yg tau perasaan aku sebab aku xpercaya aku sama ada aku bole lakukannya atau tidak. Im not sure myself. Bdn terasa penat beberapa hari before bsalin, xcukup tdo. And lepas bberapa kali usaha push2 tu, aku tawakal je...

Dengan ini mempersembahkan :-

Nabilah Insyirah Bt Nizammuddin

2.63kg

Normal asst. vacum

10th June 2011 12:24pm

Alhamdulillah... Syukur =)

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Countdown starts!!! Hiyaakkkk... ehehe nk counting macam mommy Rose gak. Though her counting ends yesterday. Hehehe I'll start mine and InsyaAllah try update everyday =) Seronok jugak baca blog mommy Rose when she's updating her condition everyday, till baby deliver. It's very 'the moment'! Me too nk capture every moment, which i would say memorable moment yang xdapat dilupakan especially when it's my first time, our first baby, first time blogging. And hopefully, for the next baby(chewahhh... da plan gtu) i'll do the same. Setiap baby adalah special. =)

As mentioned in mommy Rose blog, Alhamdulillah...she has safely delivered baby Fahim to this very world. Hopefully baby & mommy adalah in good condition. Cant wait for her update,see baby Fahim's pic and stori mori pasal her moment! Sape lagi yer yang sedang counting days or dah delivered? Huuuhuhuh xsabar nk baca experience mereka2 ni! Hihkhik bole x gtu :-p As my due will be on early June... Xsilap during school holidays kot, tapi dalam hati ni dok mengharap baby keluar awal. And macam ada instinct...(ye ke? perasaan jek kot). Lupa lak nk tnya kt my Mak bila gaknya due kami adik beradik.. hikhik.

Kuat ke instinct tu? Xla kuat sangat sebab xnk confident@yakin sgt tapi mayb lebih kepada 'harap2 baby kua awl'. Kalo di ikotkan, melalui survey2 rakan seperjuangan ni, baby keluar on end of W37 - W38. Cepat jugak, tapi kira2 lebih kurang 9bulan ++ ok la tu kn. Sekarang ni, me da rajin2 turun naik tangga umah, cuba rajin2 kemas dapo sket pas balik keje, rajin basuh baju (mesin basuh baru~ excited ke?) hahahah xla, sebab takut xsempat nk basuh baju2 yg nk bawak ke spital nnt plus, tgk encik Nizam pon xmenang tgn dengan kerja ofis a.k.a meeting mlm and housework (wifey dah xlarat nk buat tpaksala encik Nizam tlg2 yang mana2 sempat). Anyway, Alhamdulillah...encik Nizam pon rajin gak tlg2 bab2 keje umah ni, dia dah biasa buat even before kami kawen. So no worries but kne buat schedule sketla untuk manage sume keje. Hehehe kesian.

Badan ni rasa dah xdapat balance, makin worse... rasanya kalau ada orang jalan kt sebelah and langgar... Me dengan redha jatuh tgolek. Betapa xseimbangnya rasa diri ini. Rasa macam belon dengan pemberat magnet. Adeih... badan pon rasa macam dah start nk bengkak2, kaki pon da nmpk kembang... Alhamdulillah syukur sangat sebab kaki baru rasa sakit2 sekarang dan xberlaku awal2 dolu. Tangan@jari jemari pon dah start rasa cramp2 macam bengkak ke ape...xsure. Setiap pagi bgn tido akan rasa numb 1 badan, and have to do some exercise and stretching, sebab rasa cm darah xmengalir smoothly all over the body. And bila pusing2 badan bila tdo, hv to pusing slowly...mmg rasa xselesa bahagian perut compared to sebelum2 ni. Baby dah besar kn...so every movement dia pon, da rasa cm ngilu2.

Feels like baby dah pushing down, please baby...be the head that pushing. And my lower back pain pon rasa dah pagi tadi, early symptom... Get the checklist on my head, and updating every single symptom that shows. Hehehe...kentut2 adalah uncontrollable ahhaha.. gross!!! Baby, please tell Ibu bila nak keluar ni? Hikhik... semalam bila xdapat nak tido...guling2....imagine, if laa kn...tetiba jek kua symptom nk deliver dah, cmane??? Haaaa... bes jugak imagine! Sebab cm boleh berlatih jadi suspen2 gtu. Tapi perasaannya adalah excited! Hahahaha ape la xkena dgn aku neh, gi spital pon bole suka, jumpa doc pon hepi jek... nk bsalin bole plak excited?  Something wrong~ =P

InsyaAllah, baby's name encik Nizam da finalize kan, tunggu baby keluar and declare. Every single thing dalam baby checklist pon alhamdulillah dah siap prepare, beli, booked and etc... Baby grab bag, ready to be grabbed anytime. Few things of baby needs kne bawak ke rumah my Parents.. My grab bag yg xfully ready, sebab ada few things yg br beli and will be finalize by end of this week. Both of us, Encik Nizam and me da apply cuti for this coming Monday to get everything ready. Weekend xcukup masa as we're fully occupied with activities planned such as family member's wedding, my Atok moving out, baby checkup... appointment dgn Mr Ho and so on. Kebetulan Tuesday is a public holiday, then it's an opportunity to rilex and finalize everything. 

It's been 9 months full of memories, carrying baby in my womb. Never feel like it's a burden or regret, it's an honor actually to experience this beautiful journey that completed every woman's life. Furthermore, though the journey is kinda long but Im sure everyone that experienced, whether the mommy herself or father-to-be will miss every single moment. Sentimental and very precious. You'll forget the pain as baby starts to react and move... I think that's how it feels when it comes to labor. Though the unimaginable pain the mother experienced, once hearing the cry of her own baby and once the baby is in the mother's arm, it's like everything is bearable... A strength of a mother. 

Now, it's me that is counting, and Encik Nizam's turn to wait for baby's call. He's been amazing ever since i'm pregnant, er... even before. He had tried to be as much helpful as possible and also understanding. Gladly, during the pregnancy, my mood was in a SUPERB GOOD condition, means xde la too emotional or arguing all the time. To be precise, I'm all the way in good mood and we've been happy and loving! Alhamdulillah, hopefully my baby will be happy as much as we're having her. Very similar to the name choosed for her, insyaAllah. It's time to pray a lot to Allah, may the journey ends well and everything goes smoothly. 

Ya Allah permudahkan segala urusan kami Dunia dan Akhirat. Amin.

I'm in my 3rd Trimester!

Wow! Im already started my new trimester, which is the last one. By now, i should be bz counting my weeks and days, be very & xtra careful of my actvty and be more concerned about my food consumption! This is most important!!! takutla nk dekat2 due ni, detect diabetes ke blood pressure issues... urghhhh sgt2 risau. but hopefully everything's fine... (Last check-up..doc pon ckp im healthy and baby pn ok! Gud baby, u behave well!!! Teruskan usaha..uhuhuh)

Owhhhh...as there's no more semester left after this, uhuhuhu i should br ready of my preparation facing the due! Kalo difikir2 makin kalut pulak rasa, and am i ready for this? Mmg ready nk tgk org yang duk tendang2 dalam perut, xsabar rasa hahha tp... byk btul cabaran sebelum dan selepasnya kn? Er..cabaran kah? I think to be precise, its a responsibility!

Bila teringt balik, masa awl2 kawen dlu...rasanya baru jek sbulan kawen tapi ada je keep on tnya 'ada kabar baik ke?' or ' da berisi ke?' uhhuhuh secara logik, xdela scepat tu kn, tapi rezeki tu suma atas kuasa Allah. Sape yang bakal kawen tu akan alami mende yg sama gak, cm da 'adat' org melayu, suka mgusik2.. heheh xpela..masa tu awl lagi. Tapi kalo kne pulak pada yang da setahun dua kawen tu, xde rezeki lagi untuk dapat cahaya mata...mau gak terguris hati dan perasaan.

And actually i nak share my pregnancy experience. At first, i know nothing  and xtau pon ada supplement yang membantu kepada kehamilan. But gladly, i've friend yang sharing this info with me. Dia suggest try ambil asid folic, sesuai bagi wanita yang merancang kehamilan. Ni adalah salah satu usaha la kan, yang selebihnya kita berserah pada Allah s.w.t. Niat tu penting, jangan pulak taksub. Kuasa Allah la yang menentukan segalanya! Kena keep in mind ya. Anyway, asid folic ni digalakkn diambil dalam bentuk pil (bole didapati di farmasi) ataupon dalam makanan seharian contohnya sayur hijau (bayam), jus buah dan bijirin. For those yang telah hamil, doc akan suggest untuk ambil asid folic for the first trimester. Ia dapat mengurangkan risiko bayi dari mengalami kecacatan. Wallahua'lam. 

Tapi for the 1st trimester ni, kne be extra careful la sbb kandungan fragile and as for the first-time-to be parents ni, we dont hv experience kan. Careful of ape yang dimakan, kurangkan aktiviti outdoor and paling penting jaga emosi. Morning sickness in First trimester is common. Some gone through difficulties, meanwhile others do not experience it at all. (Lucky!) Huhuh me? I can say, mine was 'suam2 kuku' morning sickness. Early stage, i feel very tired and exhausted during night time after work. I'll be sleeping early after my Isyak prayer, and sometimes I dont have the strength to hv my dinner. I experience it more during end of 1st trimester, for bout 2weeks. Headache and feels like kepala berpusing2, cant even opened my eyes. I do not dare to take any pills coz its giving more pain than cure! Seriously! I think as I reach my 14 weeks, the symptom reduce and there's no more sickness except... i lost my appetite! 

On the 2nd trimester, asid folic will be changed to OBmin or pramilet which is multivitamin to help mothers more energetic and for the development of baby. Few check-ups done until i'm in 5months of pregnancy... i loss few kgs, and the nurse and doc advised me on gaining some weight for the next visit. (huhuh... mmg terasa penat nk telan makanan). The beauty of 2nd trimester was, baby 'first kick'! Subhanallah. I felt it when i was doing my isyak prayer, kebetulan masa tu baru nk solat. I felt the kicking... and cant wait until finishing the solat to tell encik nizam about it. (astaghfirullah.. cobaan btul! :p but it was amazing! Amazing feeling!) When I asked encik nizam, to feel the baby... then, my baby start kicking and it was a strong one. ( I said to encik nizam that the baby wants to show ayah that she's there! Cute! Wonderful moment...) 

Until now, she's been kicking, moving, punching and more action packed drama after meal taken! Masa mula2 tu, terasa at one spot je, i mean baby movement but now... i can feel more than one, serentak at opposite spot. mayb she's stretching kot. hehhehe... membesar suda! Pregnancy, i can say it is the most wonderful moment a woman can experience. Though a few went through difficulties but at the end, it was something that is maturing one self. Realising the responsibility of parenthood, its emotional. 

'Maturity of human being develop when one starts to take a challenge, solving a problem and facing the truth' - Me

School Holidays & Wedding! I'm sharing mine...

Bila musim cuti skolah jek, banyakla dapat jemputan kenduri kawen ni. Banyak sampai xter'attend', yang dapat dtg pon yg dekat2 and yg 'penting2' je. Bukanla yg xdpt attend tu xpenting, tapi maksudnya ada priority la kn. Mana la larat nk attend 2-3 wedding shari, bengkok kaki ni. Badan letih, kaki penat... yang dalam perut ni pon berpusing2. hikhik... Sori pada kwn2 yang mengadakan kenduri kendara tanpa khadiran saya! Xpe, xpenting pon kehadiran saya selagi majlis tu dapat diteruskn. Tapi maaf juga kerana terpaksa menolak dan sekali gus tidak mhadirkan diri atas sebab2 tak dapat dielakkn. Da masuk bulan ke-7 ni, rasanya weekend semakin pack dengan aktiviti... dan ahad adalah hari 'wajib' balik ke Cheras, kalo xbalik tu...rasa cm xcomplete. 

Tp insyaAllah, mayb pada 27th March ni xdpt balik Cheras, sebab da book kelas antenatal kt DEMC. Xconfirm lagi eventhough da book, sbb organizer xcall untuk make payment. So, pending... encik nizam da dok risau pasal antenatal class ni, sbb die yang deal dgn organizer tu and da confirm ms gi checkup aritu, nama mmg in the list but xde dpt call lg dr diorg ... then the date da dekat tinggal bout a week ++ jek. Apa yg bole dibuat adelah, tenangkan encik nizam and make a plan... if the organizer xcall by next wednesday, then..encik nizam has to call the organizer for info. Yela, kami pon excited gak nak gi kelas tu (saya atau encik nizam? huhuhuuh) Encik nizam da survey on the activity for the day, and die lagi mengambil tahu lagi byk dr saya tentang perkara2 ni. huuhuh 'ayah sayang baby' la katakan.... tu yg encik nizam berkobar2 tu. hikhik ... 

Owh berbalik pada topik School holidays tadi, pasal kenduri kendara...teringat pulak zaman mula2 decide untuk berumahtangga. Merisik, Bertunang, Nikah, Kenduri Kendara... biasalah adat melayu. Sume pon telah selamat saya lalui. Alhamdulillah, selesai dengan baik tanpa sebarang kekusutan hutang piutang. Maklumla zaman sekarang ni kan, banyak skim pinjaman yang ditawarkan, digunakan oleh muda-mudi untuk menampung perbelanjaan perkahwinan. Tak salah pon jika mereka menggunakannya, cuma bergantung kepada kemampuan dan keperluan masing2. Janganlah setelah selesai majlis, salah faham terjadi akibat kegagalan melunaskan hutang2 ini nanti. Banyak persediaan yang perlu ada pada masa ini, terutamanya bagi pihak lelaki. Wang hantaran sekarang pon rata2 sudah mencecah RM10k, minimum. Belum lagi barang hantaran, mau 11 berbalas 13... terpulang pada setiap pasangan dan kehendak keluarga. Mas kahwin paling penting, dan baru2 ini, ada majlis agama islam negeri yang sudah 'update' jumlah terbaru bagi jumlah mas kahwin bg pasangan yang ingin berkahwin. (Sila update di website majlis agama islam masing2 yer)

Wah kusut dibuatnya bila difikir2 tentang belanja kahwin ni. Majlis kenduri kendara, sedikit rumit bagi yang berada di bandar sebab kne book dewan lebih awl (bagi yg ingin mengadakan majlis didewan), katering, mak andam, photographer dsb. Ada yang katanya, perlu book dewan 1tahun lebih awl bagi memastikan tarikh dan majlis yang dirancangkan dapat diadakan. (siyes, xtipu) Kad kawen skang pon da mcm2 design, kalo ikutkan nafsu...memang nak je bli yang cantik2 tanpa mgira harga, tapi malangnya kami tiada sponsor@ saya bukan anak hartawan. Bila difikir2 balik, kad kawen tu, akhirnya akan dibuang dan di'recycle'. membazir2... Disebabkan masa buat kad kawen tu, encik nizam yang baik hati men'sponsor', saya pon jadi xsmpi hati untuk membazir duitnya. hehehe (mata kelip2... *o* tima kasih yer encik nizam)

Lupa plak, prosedur kawen tu jangan lupa review ye! Borang2 yang perlu, HIV test, dsb... jangan last minit buat, nnt terkocoh2... maklumla mne tau tok kadi@ imam xramai. Masa saya nak jalani proses ni pon, saya mmg ada notebook untuk suma update and checklist. Maklumla, xde sape nk tlg uruskan, lagipon da terbiasa menguruskan diri sdiri.. anak perempuan pertama la katakan. Kalo ada kakak, bole la jugak sebuk2 sharing2 ye x... hikhik kakak ipar masa tu pon tgh sarat mengandung. Setiap checklist tu nnt, apa saja update akan diupdate kepada encik nizam sebagai reminder. (kita kne lebih organize dr orang laki ni, plus kdg2 diorg lupa sbb byk keje)

Tsenyum sdiri lak bila ingt balik time2 nk uruskan majlis sdiri, sebab rasa mcm uruskan perkahwinan orang lain, bz xhengat sehingga hari sebelum nikah...sebok gi pasar bli telur, bunga..mcm2 heheh tapi enjoy! Sebab Alhamdulillah semuanya berjalan lancar, dan semua orang (family, jiran, kawan2) memberikan kerjasama 100%. (Terima kasih semua!) Terima kasih buat pengapit saya, Hawa! (ko kawen mmg aku xkn jadi pengapit la kn :p Anyway thanx sbb byk tlg!) Encik nizam juga!!! Banyak tlg dalam urusan majlis belah saya uhuk2 (terharu -_-" ) Memang bersyukur sebab majlis da selesai  dan berjalan dgn baik!(bg yg xkawen lg, korang akan tau mcmana rs lega itu)  

Checklist2 tu masih ada, bg yang nk, sila la komen ke email... masih ada dlm simpanan. Kalo nk any recommendation on tukang jahit, mak andam ke katering bole la disuggestkan... tp xtaula korang puas ati ke x. Tp yang masa wedding saya aritu, Alhamdulillah bab katering, ramai ckp sedap! Mak andam pon dapat bisnes kencang hikhik begitu jugak dgn pelamin. Saya recommend tukang jahit untuk baju nikah, sbb encik nizam sangat2 puas hati dgn jahitannya. Anyway, saya pon nk share few pic of my engagement and W-day! Enjoys...

Majlis bertunang selesai dengan selamat. Amin.

Hantaran Pertunangan (mine was cream-gold theme made by myself ^_^ )

My hantaran for wedding made by Khaula!

It is a long journey but as time goes by, it becomes a short and simple stories known as memories... but it's a sweet one!